Who makes a good reference
Good choices. A teacher, coach, job coach, volunteer leader, or past boss.
Usually not. Close family members (employers want people outside your family).
How to ask
Always ask before you list someone. It's polite, and it lets them get ready for a call.
Ask clearly. 'Would you be a reference for me when I apply for jobs?'
Give details. Tell them what kind of job you're seeking.
Get their info. Ask for the phone number or email they want employers to use.
Say thanks. Thank them for helping you.